Leaning on God for Holiness: Living Set Apart by His Grace
Holiness is often misunderstood. Many believe it means striving for perfection, following strict religious rules, or separating themselves from the world completely. But in reality, holiness is not about human effort—it is about relying on God to transform us from the inside out. As Christians, we are called to be holy, not by our own strength, but through the power of Jesus Christ.
HOLINESS
Alex Tan
2/10/20254 min read


Leaning on God for Holiness: Living Set Apart by His Grace
Holiness is often misunderstood. Many believe it means striving for perfection, following strict religious rules, or separating themselves from the world completely. But in reality, holiness is not about human effort—it is about relying on God to transform us from the inside out. As Christians, we are called to be holy, not by our own strength, but through the power of Jesus Christ.
At Nelpis.com, we believe that holiness is not something we achieve but something we receive through faith in Jesus. This article explores how we, as believers, can lean on God for holiness and live a life that reflects His glory.
Understanding Holiness: A Call to Be Set Apart
The Bible is clear that holiness is not optional for believers. 1 Peter 1:15-16 states:
"But just as He who called you is holy, so be holy in all you do; for it is written: ‘Be holy, because I am holy.’”
To be holy means to be set apart for God’s purposes. It is not about being morally superior or following religious traditions, but about being dedicated to God in every aspect of life.
Holiness is not something we can produce on our own. It is a work of the Holy Spirit in us. When we surrender to Him, He shapes us to become more like Christ, removing the things that hinder our spiritual growth.
Holiness Comes Through Jesus, Not Our Efforts
Many people believe they need to earn holiness through good behavior, strict discipline, or religious rituals. However, Scripture teaches that holiness is a gift that comes through Jesus Christ.
Hebrews 10:10 declares:
"And by that will, we have been made holy through the sacrifice of the body of Jesus Christ once for all."
Jesus' sacrifice on the cross not only cleansed us from sin but also made us holy in God’s sight. Our role is to live in the reality of that holiness, allowing God to shape our character daily.
Trying to achieve holiness in our own strength leads to frustration. But when we lean on God, His grace empowers us to live a life that honors Him.
Surrendering to God’s Transformation
To live in holiness, we must allow God to transform us from the inside out. Romans 12:2 instructs:
"Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—His good, pleasing and perfect will."
Holiness begins in the heart and mind. When we surrender our thoughts, desires, and decisions to God, He renews us and shapes us into His image.
Here are some practical ways to surrender to God’s transformation:
Daily Prayer: Ask God to guide your thoughts and actions, helping you live in a way that honors Him.
Meditate on Scripture: Reading God’s Word transforms our thinking and aligns us with His will.
Yield to the Holy Spirit: The Holy Spirit convicts, guides, and strengthens us to walk in holiness.
Stay Accountable: Surround yourself with fellow believers who encourage you to live a Christ-centered life.
Walking in Holiness Through God’s Strength
Trying to be holy in our own strength leads to failure, but relying on God’s power brings true transformation. 2 Corinthians 12:9 reminds us:
"My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness."
Instead of striving in our own efforts, we should rely on God’s grace to empower us to live righteously. When temptation comes, we can lean on God’s strength rather than trying to fight battles alone.
Here’s how we can rely on God’s strength for holiness:
Recognize that holiness is a journey, not a destination. We are continually being shaped by God.
Confess and repent quickly. When we fall short, God’s grace restores us and strengthens us.
Ask for help in moments of weakness. God is always ready to strengthen us when we call on Him.
The Role of the Holy Spirit in Holiness
Holiness is not just about what we avoid—it is about who we allow to lead us. The Holy Spirit plays a crucial role in helping us walk in holiness.
Galatians 5:16 says:
"So I say, walk by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the flesh."
Instead of fighting sin on our own, we must yield to the Holy Spirit’s leadership. He gives us the power to overcome sin, the wisdom to make godly choices, and the desire to pursue righteousness.
Walking in holiness is not about saying "no" to sin—it is about saying "yes" to the Holy Spirit and allowing Him to guide our steps.
Holiness in Everyday Life
Holiness is not just about church services and Bible reading—it affects how we live every day. Here are some areas where holiness should be evident:
In our speech: Avoid gossip, lying, or hurtful words. Instead, speak life and encouragement.
In our relationships: Love others as Christ loves us. Show kindness, patience, and forgiveness.
In our thoughts: Guard against negative, impure, or anxious thoughts. Meditate on God’s truth.
In our decisions: Seek God’s wisdom before making choices, ensuring they align with His will.
1 Corinthians 10:31 reminds us:
"So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God."
Holiness is not just about avoiding sin—it is about reflecting God’s character in every aspect of life.
The Reward of Walking in Holiness
Choosing holiness brings blessings, peace, and a deeper relationship with God. Hebrews 12:14 instructs us:
"Make every effort to live in peace with everyone and to be holy; without holiness, no one will see the Lord."
Holiness draws us closer to God. When we live set apart for Him, we experience His presence, guidance, and joy in new ways.
Holiness is not about human effort—it is about God’s grace working in us. When we lean on Him, we experience true transformation and live a life that reflects His glory.
At Nelpis.com, we encourage you to lean on God for holiness. Instead of striving in your own strength, rest in His grace, trust in His power, and walk in the holiness He has already given you through Christ.








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